30+ Fun Things to Do as a Couple: Spice up your Relationship
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It’s easy for relationships to become dull and predictable over time, and this can make you feel like your relationship has lost some of its spark. But, with some effort and creativity, you can spice things up and have fun with your partner.
There are so many fun activities that you can do together as a couple to reignite the flames of passion and build intimacy. When you are in a long-term relationship, it can be easy to become complacent and comfortable.
We know finding these new and fun things to try out together can be overwhelming. That’s why I created this list of over 30 fun things you can try out with your special person today.
1. Cook Together
Cooking together is a fun and romantic thing to do with your partner. You can try new recipes, experiment with flavours, and enjoy a delicious meal together. Plus, cooking can be a great stress reliever, and it can help you develop teamwork and communication skills.
The photo you can see is after our first cooking class together!
2. Go on Adventures With your special someone
Get out of your comfort zone and try some new outdoor activities together. Whether it’s hiking, biking, or kayaking, exploring the great outdoors can be a great way to bond and have fun. It can also be a great way to get some exercise and fresh air.
This is especially important in long distance relationships.
3. Take Up a New Hobby
Trying a new hobby together can be a great way to bond and learn new skills. You could try painting, photography, or even pottery. The key is to find something that you both enjoy and can do together.
Discussing this new hobby, and deciding what to pick, is also super helpful for building your communication skills.
4. Have Fun Indoors and Try Game Nights
Game nights are a classic way to have fun and bond with your partner. Whether you prefer board games or video games, there are plenty of options to choose from. Just make sure to keep things lighthearted and fun, and avoid getting too competitive.
5. Do Something Different Volunteer Together
Things can get boring in relationships. Volunteering together can be a spontaneous way to bond while also making a difference in your community. You could volunteer at a local animal shelter, food bank, or community garden. Not only will you be doing something good for others, but you’ll also be strengthening your relationship in the process.
6. Get Active and Exercise Together
Exercising together can be a great way to stay healthy and strengthen your relationship. Whether you prefer running, yoga, or weightlifting, there are plenty of options to choose from. You could even try taking a dance class together, which can be a fun and romantic way to get moving.
7. Plan a Romantic Getaway
Do something romantic with your partner. Going on a romantic trip together can be a great way to escape the stresses of everyday life and deepen your connection. Whether you prefer a tropical beach or a cosy cabin in the woods, there are plenty of options to choose from. Just make sure to plan ahead and budget accordingly.
Below is our romantic trip to Vietnam - we’re never short of fun things to do as a couple.
8. Relax and Unwind
It’s weird but, sometimes the best way to bond with your partner is to simply relax and unwind together. You could have a spa day, take a hot bath together, or just cuddle up and watch a movie. The key is to focus on each other and let go of any distractions or stressors.
9. Surprise Each Other
Surprising your partner with thoughtful gestures and gifts can be a great way to keep the romance alive. You could leave a love note in the house, plan a surprise date night, or even just bring them their favourite coffee in the morning. The key is to show your partner that you care and appreciate them. Who doesn't love a good surprise every now and then?
10. Go Into Deep Conversations With Each Other
Good communication is essential for any healthy relationship. Make sure to take the time to talk with your partner and listen to their thoughts and feelings. This can help you avoid misunderstandings and build a stronger connection.
If you want to learn more about deep conversations, check out this blog.
11. Set Goals Together and Work Towards Something
This is not only a fun thing to do as a couple, but it’s also a great way to show that both of you really care about each other’s futures. Setting goals together can be a great way to strengthen your relationship and achieve something meaningful together.
You could work towards a fitness goal, plan a trip together, or even start a business together. Just make sure to communicate openly and stay committed to your goals.
We started this travel blog together! We had a shared passion and drive so put that together to create this!
12. Explore Your City
If both of you want to learn more about where you live, exploring your city together can be a great way to do that. You could visit museums, go on a walking tour, or even try a new restaurant. The key is to be open to new experiences and enjoy each other's company.
We know this all too well… just look at our page!
13. Try DIY Projects and Build Something Together
A couple that builds together, stays together. Building something together can be a great way to bond and create something meaningful. You could build a piece of furniture, a garden bed, or even a treehouse. The key is to work together and enjoy the process of creating something from scratch.
14. Challenge each other to a Dance or Sing-off
Being silly and having fun together can be a great way to let loose and bond. You could have a dance party in your living room, sing karaoke together, or even make funny videos.
15. Watch Comedies and Laugh Together
Laughter is the best medicine, and watching comedies together can be a great way to bond and have fun. You could watch your favourite sitcom, a classic comedy movie, or even a stand-up comedy special.
16. Connect with Nature on Camping Trips
If both of you are a fan of the outdoors. Camping trips can be a great way to connect with nature and each other. Whether you prefer car camping or backpacking, there are plenty of options to choose from. Just make sure to plan ahead and bring all the necessary gear.
17. Have a Picnic
Having a picnic together can be a great way to enjoy the outdoors and each other's company. You could pack a basket full of your favourite foods and find a scenic spot to enjoy them. The key is to relax and enjoy the moment.
18. You Can Be Adventurous and Try New Foods
A little precaution here, especially if you think you might be allergic to certain food groups. But, trying new foods together can be a great way to bond and discover new flavours. You could try a new restaurant, cook a new recipe together, or even go on a food tour.
Robyn can’t say no to a spa day
19. Why Not Pamper Yourselves: Have a Spa Day
Having a spa day together can be a great way to relax and pamper yourselves. You could book a couples massage, take a yoga class, or even just soak in a hot tub.
20. Stay at Home: Build a Fort
One of the best ways to have fun and get cosy at the same time! You could gather blankets, pillows, and other materials to build your own personal fort. The key is to let your imagination run wild and enjoy the moment of playfulness.
21. Be Kids Again: Play in a Park
Being kids again and playing in a park together is a great way to let loose. You could play on the swings, climb on the jungle gym, or even have a game of tag. Just enjoy the moment of playfulness.
22. Take a Walk: Explore Your Neighbourhood
Taking a walk together and exploring your neighbourhood can be a great way to connect and get some exercise. You could walk to your favourite coffee shop, park, or even just around the block. The key is to enjoy each other's company and the scenery around you.
23. Have a Karaoke Night: Sing Your Hearts Out
Having a karaoke night together can be a great way to let loose and have fun. You could sing your favourite songs, perform duets, or even have a competition. Enjoy the moment of silliness.
24. Get Crafty: Art Projects
Getting crafty together can be a great way to bond and create something beautiful. You could try painting, knitting, or even making jewellery together. The key is to have fun and enjoy the process of creating something together.
25. Make a Bucket List: Dream Big Together
Making a bucket list together can be a great way to bond and dream big. You could write down all the things you want to do together, from travelling to learning a new skill. The key is to be open to new experiences and enjoy the process of planning and dreaming together.
26. Have a Movie Marathon: Binge Watch
Having a movie marathon together can be a great way to relax and enjoy each other's company. You could watch your favourite movies, binge-watch a TV show, or even have a theme night.
27. Be Competitive: Play Games
Being competitive and playing games together can be a great way to have fun and strengthen your bond. You could play card games, board games, or even video games.
28. Learn a Language But Do it Together
Learning a new language together can be a great way to bond and broaden your horizons. You could take a class, use an app like Duolingo or even just practise with each other. The key is to enjoy the process of learning and have fun with it.
29. Go to a Concert
If both of you have been itching to go to a live concert then here's the sign you need. You can go to any concert to enjoy live music and each other's company. You could see your favourite band, discover a new artist, or even attend a festival.
30. Do a Scavenger Hunt and Explore Your City
Doing a scavenger hunt together can be a great way to explore your city and have fun. You could create your own scavenger hunt, use an app, or even join a local scavenger hunt event.
31. Host a Dinner Party for Friends
If you’re really up for more company you can both host a dinner party. Hosting a dinner party together can be a great way to show off your cooking skills and socialise with friends. You could plan the menu together, decorate the table, and enjoy the company of your loved ones.
We planned dinner for 30 people in Bali!
33. Plan a Photoshoot
Having a photoshoot together can be a great way to capture memories and bond over a shared experience. You could hire a professional photographer, take photos with your own camera, or even just use your phone.
Conclusion
There are so many fun things to do as a couple. You can choose one item from our long list every time you feel like doing something fun and creating new memories. I believe couples should make time out for each other, get away from the hustle and bustle of their everyday lives and do things together.
It helps maintain a healthy work-life balance and keeps the relationship running smoothly. Who doesn't want that? So, next time you feel your relationship needs a little bit of oomph, get out and go have fun together.
